This is a story that benefited me as a parent. I
co-slept with my daughters after they became three months. This is natural in
Japan because we think close attachment between a mother and a baby helps the
baby to become stable and satisfied so that he or she can become independent
sooner and considerate of others. However, I felt that I was doing something
wrong in the US. because I knew a lot of people believe that co-sleeping is a bad idea, is dangerous or is
spoiling a child. When I read a research article that explained that different
cultures have different opinions about co-sleeping and a lot of them are
positive, I got free from the anxiety and guilty feeling, and became confident with
what I was providing my children by co-sleeping. I tried to find the original article I read
but I couldn’t find it. However, The
Natural Children Project (http://www.naturalchild.org/guest/tami_breazeale.html)
introduces research that show children whose mothers co-sleep develop stronger
secure attachment and says “[c]osleeping is the cultural norm for approximately
90% of the world's population”(Breazeale, 2001, para. 3).
Reference
Breazeale, E. Tami.(2001).
Cosleeping. Retrieved on May 18, 2012, from http://www.naturalchild.org/guest/tami_breazeale.html